It’s Not Your Fault!

“Hear, O heavens! Listen, O earth! For the LORD has spoken: "I reared children and brought them up, but they have rebelled against me.” (Isaiah 1:2)

We've all heard it, although I hope none of us has ever had to say it, "Where did I go wrong?"  When teenagers run wild, and young adults go against everything their parents have taught them, the parents usually blame themselves.  I know my own parents asked that question many times.

After bringing up their children in the knowledge of the Lord; introducing them to the love of Christ, and teaching them right from wrong,  and after demonstrating to their children that God is the author and finisher of their lives, after all this, the children of the godliest parents sometimes go off course.  Not only do the parents blame themselves, they also sometimes come under the scrutiny of others.

And yet, our God is the God of second chances.  If you have examined your life before God, and He has forgiven your sins, and if your wrong and even ask your children to forgive your shortcomings, and if you have done everything right, and they still go wrong, then it's not your fault.  It's their fault.  Because to sin is a choice; the choice of the person who has the decision to make.

We can't make the choice for our children.  You can teach them how to make good choices, but the choices they make are theirs alone, right or wrong.  My parents did the very best they could, holding me up before the Lord for many years and never giving up.  Both my parents and my dear grandmother prayed for me up to the day I finally committed my life completely to the Lord.  And then they continued to pray for me until the Lord called them home. 

God understands about children going astray.  He's been in the parenting business for a long time, and sometimes even His children wander off into the desert of rebellion.

Bring your children before the Lord often.  Allow Him to keep them, and if they choose to wander off, He knows what to do.

“Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.” (Proverbs 22:6)

 Raising Children for the Lord

It's such an awesome privilege
And a big responsibility,
God has given to us as parents
This wonderful opportunity
To raise our precious children
And instill into their lives
The wonder and amazement
Of the love of Jesus Christ

So they will learn to trust in Him
And worship and to pray,
To love others with the love of God
And to honor and obey
As parents, we've been entrusted
To raise them in God's love
To be there to encourage them
When they feel like giving up

And to be there just to listen
When life deals some painful blows
And comfort them when they feel afraid
And when tears begin to flow
To share with them those joyful times,
The precious moments in their lives
When doors begin to open up
And opportunities arise

Through everything they face in life,
Let's be there cheering them on,
For we only have one chance at this,
For childhood soon is gone
So let's rely on Father God
To raise them to become
Men or Women who trust in Him
And in His precious Son.

© By M.S.Lowndes

 

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